This will be a very difficult post to read, but I must write it.
The most awful thing about abusers is that they often project an image of caring, loving, and compassion. Too many of them wrap this image in a religious cloak. The phoniness continues until someone calls them out and exposes their abuse to the public and stands against them.
I am that exposer in this instance.
On December 14, Douglas Woodall died. I’ve left his obituary below. It nauseated me to read. Here is the truth about this man.
Doug Woodall was an ecclesiastical thug. He was an angry and violent man who used his power to both feather his own nest AND lash out at those in need and those who dared to challenge his narrow and limited thinking.
He was my endorsing bishop from 1995 until 2004. In 1997, he required the active duty chaplains turn in their TDY money since her was “providing their meals” during the annual conference (he didn’t). In 1998, I was in the middle of a divorce and was tapped out financially. Woodall threatened to pull my endorsement unless I “tithed” my full amount to him. In 2002, Woodall scheduled a visit to my MP unit in Fort Leonard Wood. He told me to approach my commander to get him made an “honorary MP”, which was refused by the general as “the oddest request I’ve ever received”. In 2003, he told me I could only get remarried if HE approved of the lady. In 2004, when I began dating my second wife, he told me to have my diocesan bishop approach the HOB for “permission” to marry. When they refused, he blamed me for not keeping him “in the loop” even though he received every email involved. Then he said he would go back to the HOB but only if I would stay with him “no matter what they said”. When I told him that wasn’t satisfactory, he said in an email that I never should have been ordained in the first place. When I found a new endorsing agent that would permit me to marry, he pulled my endorsement, leaving me in danger of losing my career. Later when I told him I wasn’t interested in having a relationship with him personally, he accused me of violating scripture and reprised his attack on my ordination.
This is just my experience. It does not include the stories I heard from others who received nasty professional references and attempts to sink the ministries of other capable priests.
What is the worst part of this man? Over the past fifteen years, he has projected this image of a “loving” and “caring” man of God. It fooled many.
His “doctorate in theology” was another item he would push to try to assert that he was theologically trained. His doctorate was honorary…and he never completed a dissertation.
Douglas Woodall is and always will be a phony, a fake, and a bully.
Am I angry with him? Not anymore. I’ve worked through the wounds he gave me. But I want to give voice to those individuals and families that he harmed over his professional life. Those victims deserve to have their stories told also.
I ask those of you who took the time to read this to do two important acts of prayer. First, pray for his victims. I know there are others out there…and I want them to heal as I have. Second, please pray for his family, especially his wife Pam. I always felt sorry for her in a compassionate way…and I believe there is more to her story than I was ever told.
One more note. For those of you who say that it is wrong to “speak ill of the dead” or that I am “being disloyal”. You don’t understand either the fullness of pain that a man like Doug Woodall can inflict on people OR you are in denial yourself. Jesus said the truth will set you free. He didn’t say it would be polite or easy…it just works.
I won’t be silenced.
https://www.milwardfuneral.com/obituaries/Douglas-Stephen-Woodall-Sr?obId=30134749